Love is a choice. And not a choice as in "I’m GOING to eat my spinach because it’s good for me." I mean a contented, joyful choice full of the knowledge that you are truly choosing what you want, that you are walking in God’s will by making that choice.

Therefore, I believe you choose to fall in love daily, hourly, minute-ly. Face it: We all "break it," as the question puts it. A strong relationship is full of forgiveness and second, third, fourteenth chances.